Do you have siblings or close relatives to take care of your mom. Yeah, it's hard to take care of yourself if you are taking care of a sick loved one at the same time.
Or why don't you take her to a nursing home? Find a good nursing home in your area. Just so you know, assisted living is much expensive than home care...but it's still up to you which setting you prefer.
By the way, I'd like to stress the importance of long term care insurance for women -- http://www.completelongtermcare.com/resources/women.aspx
Your mom will definitely need it as she confront her retirement years. You could buy her insurance to make sure that she'll age gracefully. This could also benefit you as well
Thanks, Lorraine
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A hospital bed is a parked taxi with the meter running. Groucho Marx
Please be sensitive here. If you read the last couple of posts in this thread, you would have known that Lynne's mother passed away in May. I think that you are trying to advertise the website to long term insurance pretending that you are replying to a post.